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Healing your relationship with yourself, your body, and the most important people in your life.

Online Therapy in Colorado and Minnesota

In-person therapy available in Denver, CO

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Sex and relationship therapy for people ready to find connection, pleasure, and joy.

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Lillian Bailey is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist
Lillian Bailey is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an AAMFT Clinical Fellow
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I am here to support you in your sexual challenges and help you find satisfaction and growth.

As an AASECT-certified sex therapist, I’ve dedicated my career to providing expert knowledge and compassionate guidance to people struggling with aspects of their sexuality, including shame, trauma, physical pain, and loss.

The people I work with courageously seek greater connection with themselves and others. Together, we work on helping you discover pleasure and desire, as well as a sense of ease and comfort in the body.

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Sex. Pain. Rock n’ Roll?

I'm so honored to hold space for my clients and be trusted with their hopes and dreams for themselves and their relationships. I respect the confidence my clients put in me by pursuing excellence as a clinician and holding their stories with great care.

People who work with me note that I combine playfulness, humor and warmth with professionalism, expertise, and an ability help my clients explore very challenging or sensitive areas of their lives with deep care.

I specialize in working with:

  • People experiencing painful sex, pelvic pain, and chronic medical conditions that interfere with pleasure and desire.

  • Low desire, including individuals and couples where there are desire mismatches.

  • People who would describe themselves as sexually shy or inhibited.

…and also? I’m kind of a “Jill of many trades,” so to speak. Or a Lill of many trades, if you will. So if you’re curious about working together but not sure if I can help, reach out.

Services

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Individual Therapy

Healing and promoting positive change in your life via 1:1 work

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Relationship Therapy

Work through challenges, strengthen connection and spark passion

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Sex Therapy

Addressing sexual health concerns with professional support

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Ready to take the next step?

On The Blog

Resources to navigate your sexual health journey