FAQ

  • I do not take health insurance. This means I do not bill directly to insurance providers and you are financially responsible for the cost of sessions at the time of service. However, depending on your out-of-network benefits, a portion of the cost may be covered by your insurance plan. Documentation for submitting a claim with your health insurance provider can be generated by my EHR at the end of every month (or more frequently if you request it). You must have a diagnosis that meets medical necessity as defined by your insurance company in order to submit an out-of-network claim.

    One service I know about is Thrizer (no financial relationship/benefit to me) — you can check out FAQs of submitting out-of-network claims on their site or even sign up to submit claims via Thrizer.

    Step-by-Step Guide to Out of Network Benefits

  • A superbill is used to submit information to insurance providers for reimbursement. It includes appropriate codes related to service and diagnosis. Provider business information and tax identification are also included on the superbill. The superbill is separate from an invoice.

  • My rates as of May 2026 are:

    Individual Therapy

    55-minute therapy session - $240

    Couple/Relationship Therapy

    75-minute therapy session - $325

    Default couple therapy session length is 75 minutes, longer sessions available prorated at the same rate.

  • My strong preference is to meet weekly (as opposed to every other week) with clients, especially during the first 3 months.

    There are a few reasons:

    1. I engage in other professional activities such as speaking or travel to conferences, as well as taking regular personal time off, in addition to any sessions you might have to miss, and so oftentimes in practice we end up meeting 3 out of 4 weeks per month anyway.

    2. Research suggests that the outcome of therapy is much improved when meetings occur weekly, particularly during the first phase of treatment.

    3. My experience is that when folks meet with me less often, therapy generally has less of a sense of traction.

  • 1 - Reach out via my contact form.

    2 - If I am accepting new clients, I will reply with details about the logistics of working together and a link to book a 15-minute video consultation call to continue to explore the possibility of working together.*

    3 - You can use the link I provide to schedule a consultation call through my client portal.

    4 - We will have a consultation call where I can learn more about what brings you to therapy and what you’re looking for out of your experience and a therapist. I will also be using our conversation to make sure that my style and approach would be appropriate for the challenges/concerns you want to address in therapy. I will provide referrals upon request for providers or clinics that would be better suited.

    5 - If we both decide to move forward, I will send you my intake paperwork and we can schedule the first session.

    *If I do not have room in my practice for you, I can send you referrals to other professionals, and/or we can keep in touch about possible openings in the future. I do not keep a formal waitlist.

  • As of May 2026, Lillian’s rates for clinical/professional consultation are:

    $200/60 minutes
    $300/75 minutes
    $350/90 minutes

  • I offer both in-person and telehealth appointments. Telehealth appointments can be done for anyone currently in Colorado, Minnesota, Wisconsin, or Washington State. In-person appointments take place at 2560 Sheridan Blvd, Ste 2, Denver, CO 80214.

  • Payment information is required up front and charges are made after each session. Major credit cards and HSA/FSA cards are accepted.

  • If it is necessary to cancel an appointment, my policy is that you must cancel 24 hours before your scheduled appointment time. You will be charged the regular fee for the session if you have not provided notification of your cancellation 24 hours before the time of the appointment. I typically give clients one “freebie” late cancel per year to use at a time of their choosing.

  • Sex therapy is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on helping people with sexual challenges in the context of a professional therapeutic relationship.

    Sex therapy NEVER includes a romantic or sexual relationship between the therapist and client(s).

    Read more about sex therapy here! FAQs are at the bottom of the page.

  • Check out my page on individual therapy! FAQs are at the bottom of the page.

  • Check out my page on couple and relationship therapy! FAQs are at the bottom of the page.

  • Absolutely. Because I’m a sex therapist, people often think they can only talk to me about sex. I welcome other topics for therapeutic work even if they don’t directly relate to sexual health. art of what makes sexuality so fascinating is that it's a doorway into how you relate to your body, your mind, yourself, and the people you love. I became a sex therapist so you'd know you can bring anything here. What I'm actually interested in is supporting you as a whole person.

    For more information about my approach to sex therapy, look here.

  • Yes, and, it’s rarely going to feel like the homework you got in school (unless you want it to). Homework for me looks more like home-experimentation or home-reflection.

    Toward the end of each session, I'll prompt us to pause and reflect together – what felt important, what we're each taking away. And most weeks, you'll leave with an “index card exercise”: one or two things to keep in your awareness between sessions. Sometimes it's a statement to sit with, like "Even though I want to be seen as my authentic self, when I think about being myself around others, this feeling of fear surfaces that says: you'll be judged." Sometimes it's a tracking prompt – noticing when a feeling of tension or fear shows up in moments where you could be yourself. Simple, but it becomes a natural starting point the next time we meet.

  • I do not provide emergency or crisis services.

    If you are in a crisis, here are some resources:

    Dial 911 or 988, which are available 24/7 from anywhere in the United States.

    Use the Crisis Text Line, which is available 24/7 from anywhere in the United States.

    Colorado Crisis Services

    Wisconsin Crisis Services

    Minnesota Crisis Services

    Washington: Google your county's mental health crisis services. In Seattle/King County: 866-4CRISIS (427-4747). You can also use the WA DOH website to locate resources.