Lillian Bailey, MS, LMFT, CST CV

  • 2013: Bachelor of Arts in Psychology (with Honors) & Spanish

    Whitman College, Walla Walla, WA

  • 2017: Master of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy

    Seattle Pacific University, Seattle, WA

  • 2023: Sexual Health Certificate in Sex Therapy and Sex Education

    University of Michigan, Ann Arbor, MI

AASECT Certified Sex Therapist

Completed 90 hours of academic coursework in Human Sexuality Education, 60 hours of sex therapy training, 14 hours in attitudes and values training through a SAR course, 50 hours of supervision with an AASECT Certified Supervisor

Presentations and In The Media

Training/Continuing Education

As of May 2026, Lillian has completed over 450 hours of continuing education, with concentrations in couple/relationship therapy, Coherence Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, sexual health, pelvic pain, chronic pain and other mindbody/neuroplastic symptom treatment, culturally responsive care, and mindfulness-based approaches (MBSR, MSC, ACT).

  • Understanding and Treating Sexual/Genital Pain (4 hours)
    April 2026 | Carolin Klein, Ph.D. | Modern Sex Therapy Institutes

  • Addressing Sexual Issues in EFT Couples Therapy (4 hours)
    March 2026 | Michael Moran, LCSW, CST-S

  • Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy Advanced Core Skills (48 hours)
    October 2025–January 2026 | James Hawkins and Lisa Palmer Olson

  • Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (27 hours)
    October-December 2025 | Mindfulness and Health Institute

  • Coherence Therapy Intermediate Intensive (10.5 hours)
    November 2025 | Coherence Psychology Institute

  • 2025 Annual Conference for the Association for the Treatment of Neuroplastic Symptoms (ATNS) (11 hours)
    September 2025

  • Introductory Coherence Therapy Workshop (14 hours)
    June 2025

  • Advance your AEDP Work Through Deliberate Practice (7.5 hours)
    May 2025 | Natasha Prenn & AEDP Institute

  • Addiction & Emotionally Focused Therapy Workshop (3.5 hours)
    April 2025

  • Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy Basic Core Skills (24 hours)
    December 2024-February 2025

  • Ethics, Boundaries of Competence, Avoiding Harm, and Risk Management: Working Well with the Suicidal Patient (6 hours)
    November 2024

  • 2024 Annual Conference for the Psychophysiological Disorders Association (now ATNS) (13 hours) September 2024

  • Emotion Awareness and Expression Therapy for Chronic Pain
    March-April 2024 | Howard Schubiner and Mark Lumley

  • Beyond Cultural Humility: Attachment and Thriving for Couples of Color
    February 2024 | Dr. Paul Guillory

  • Unleash the Power of Sex in EFT (12 hours)
    January 2024 | George Faller, LMFT & Laurie Watson, PhD

  • Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) Level 1 (12 hours)
    September 2023 | ICEEFT

  • Assessment with Interracial Couples in EFT (2 Hours)
    August 2023 | Crystal Fagenbush, Denver Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy (DCEFT)

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy Externship (28 Hours)
    May 2023 | Robert Allan, Denver Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy (DCEFT)

  • Gottman Method Couple Therapy Level 2 (18 Hours)
    April 2023 | Caralee Frederick, Principle Skills Relationship Center

  • Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy (ISTT) Certificate
    2022 | The Embody Lab

  • Treating Pelvic Pain Disorders (4 Hours)
    March 2021 | Northwest Institute on Intimacy

Training previous to 2019 in: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Gottman Method Couple Therapy Level 1, Prepare-Enrich Premarital Therapy, Medical Family Therapy.

  • Couple Therapy Consultation Hours

    As of 5/1/2026, Lillian has completed 78.5 hours of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy clinical consultation (sometimes referred to as “supervision”).

  • Sex Therapy Supervision

    In addition to the sex therapy supervision hours she completed as a part of the AASECT supervision process, Lillian has completed over 25

  • Coherence Therapy Practicum (Consultation/Learning) Hours

    As of 5/1/2026, Lillian has completed 13 hours of Coherence Therapy clinical consultation.

Lillian’s Mentors, Teachers, and/or Influences